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Meet Anthony Mazzella, Ph.D.
Psychotherapist And Psychoanalyst In New York City With Close To 20 Years Of Experience.
Anthony Mazzella, Ph.D., is a psychoanalyst and psychotherapist in private practice on the Upper East Side of Manhattan. He is a training analyst and full member at the Institute for Psychoanalytic Training & Research (IPTAR), as well as being a current member of The International Psychoanalytic Association (IPA). Membership in the IPA is restricted to psychoanalysts who fulfill the most rigorous and recognized international standards for psychoanalytic training in the world. Dr. Mazzella is both a Fellow of the IPA and at IPTAR. Dr. Mazzella is on faculty and is a supervisor at IPTAR and the Metropolitan Institute for Training in Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy (MITPP). He is also recognized by the New York State Education Department’s State Board for Social Work as an approved provider of continuing education.
“My mission is to build a trusting relationship that will allow you to gain insight into your inner life and behaviors so you can make more deliberate choices and therefore lead a more fulfilling life…”
- Dr. Mazzella
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Why Choose Dr. Mazzella?
Dr. Mazzella is an NYC-based psychotherapist and psychoanalyst with over 20 years of clinical experience. He trained at the renowned Institute for Psychoanalytic Training and Research (IPTAR) with continued involvement with the organization to this day. He believes psychodynamic therapy to be an essential component of psychological work, benefiting individuals from all walks of life.
Dr. Mazzella believes that psychodynamic psychotherapy is effective for those dealing with overwhelming emotions. One of the benefits of his approach is that it helps to create a safe and trusting relationship, which is particularly helpful for learning new coping skills and strategies to manage your problems. By exploring your thoughts and feelings, you’ll gain a deeper understanding of what might be causing your problems. As you work through these emotions in a supported environment, you’ll feel more able to tackle them on your own.
Dr. Mazzella works with a wide range of individuals (e.g., adolescents, adults, and couples) to address a variety of emotional difficulties, such as interpersonal problems, self-esteem issues, depression, anxiety, and personality disorders. Dr. Mazzella’s approach focuses on insight-oriented psychodynamic therapy, emphasizing exploration of past and present experiences. For a deeper understanding of how Dr. Mazzella thinks about psychology and works with his patients, please click on any of his latest articles below.
If you’re looking for a compassionate and skilled therapist to help you navigate life’s challenges, please contact Dr. Anthony Mazzella. His years of experience and superb training have equipped him to be a leading psychotherapist and psychoanalyst.
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Why Affairs Reveal Deeper Patterns
Affairs often expose long-standing emotional gaps rather than create them. In narcissistic dynamics, one partner may feel unseen or unsupported, while the other has learned to disappear to keep the peace. Therapy focuses on understanding these roles — not excusing harm, but making sense of how the rupture developed.
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Why Crisis Often Brings Couples In
Many people don’t recognize they’re in a narcissistic relationship until a major life event forces awareness. Escalation, fear of loss, or concern for children often pushes couples into therapy — not because insight suddenly appears, but because the cost of staying the same becomes too high.
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Losing Autonomy in the Relationship
In narcissistic relationships, people often begin defining themselves based on the narcissistic partner’s reactions. Saying no feels unsafe. Personal wants become unclear. Over time, autonomy fades, and the relationship starts to revolve around emotional survival rather than mutual connection.
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Looking Beyond Labels
Narcissistic tendencies don’t follow a single script. Dr. Anthony Mazzella explores how these behaviors appear across different relationship dynamics and why understanding the personal stories behind them matters. His work helps people move from confusion to clarity when navigating challenging relational patterns.
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