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Anthony Mazzella, Ph.D., is a psychoanalyst and psychotherapist in private practice on the Upper East Side of Manhattan. He is a training analyst and full member at the Institute for Psychoanalytic Training & Research (IPTAR), as well as being a current member of The International Psychoanalytic Association (IPA). Membership in the IPA is restricted to psychoanalysts who fulfill the most rigorous and recognized international standards for psychoanalytic training in the world. Dr. Mazzella is both a Fellow of the IPA and at IPTAR. Dr. Mazzella is on faculty and is a supervisor at IPTAR and the Metropolitan Institute for Training in Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy (MITPP). He is also recognized by the New York State Education Department’s State Board for Social Work as an approved provider of continuing education.

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Welcome to the Narcissism Decoder, where we dive into the intriguing world of narcissism! These videos are the perfect solution for those who want to grasp the essence of narcissistic dynamics without committing to a longer podcast episode. Join me on this journey as we decode narcissism together!

In this powerful episode, Episode 79 and 80, we dive deep into the feelings of helplessness that can arise when you witness someone you care about self-destructing. 

We sit down with Jim, a father whose daughter is struggling with traits that seem to align with vulnerable narcissism. We explore the emotional cost of trying to stay connected when love, guilt, helplessness, and longing collide.  Jim faces the emotional cost of constantly trying to fix his daughter’s problems. 

But what happens when the helper’s need to fix crosses into emotional collapse? In this segment of my conversation with Jim we dive into his internal struggle, not just with his daughter but with his own compulsion to fix her.
Is it frustration, helplessness, or something else entirely? Dr. Mazzella explains how we can be unknowingly drawn into the dynamics of projective identification, where others project their struggles onto us, intensifying our own feelings of helplessness. It’s not just about being frustrated; it’s about understanding that sometimes, their pain is being shown to us in a way we can't ignore.

✅ Subscribe To My Channel For More Videos: https://www.youtube.com/@thenarcissismdecoder/?sub_confirmation=1

✅ Important Links: 

👉 Website: https://www.drmazzella.com/
👉 For consultation or seeking virtual therapy services please visit: https://www.drmazzella.com/contact/
👉 To listen to Dr. Mazzella’s podcast please click here: https://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast/

✅  Stay Connected With Me: 

👉 Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anthony-mazzella-ph-d-53289431/
👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thenarcissism.decoder/
👉 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thenarcissismdecoder
👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thenarcissismdecoder

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✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching: 

👉 Facing Hidden Truths: The Journey to Understand Her Family's Imperfections | Drmazzella.com
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iHaD1SaSwkk

👉 A Daughter's Search for Support: Unraveling Hidden Maternal Critique | Drmazzella.com
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l5CQxuLRYc4

👉 Exposing Covert Narcissism: Dr. Mazzella's Insights - The Hidden Truths - Part 1 | Drmazzella.com
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bk25z9Y5Jv0

👉 Dr. Mazzella's Deep Dive into Covert Narcissism: The Hidden Truths Revealed: Part 2 | Drmazzella.com
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AhOBoAnbr3A 

=============================

✅  About The Narcissism Decoder: 

Welcome to the Narcissism Decoder, where we dive into the intriguing world of narcissism! While my podcast provides an in-depth exploration of various aspects of narcissistic dynamics, I have something extra special for you on YouTube.

Unlike my podcast, these videos are short, snappy, and designed for the fast-paced world. I may not go as deep as my podcast episodes, but I make up for it with a more dynamic and visually appealing approach. It's the perfect solution for those who want to grasp the essence of narcissistic dynamics without committing to a longer podcast episode.

Join me on this journey as we decode narcissism together. Subscribe now, and let's unravel the fascinating world of narcissism in a way that suits your preference - concise, captivating, and always insightful.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩  Email: thenarcissismdecoder@gmail.com

🔔 Subscribe to my channel for more videos: https://www.youtube.com/@thenarcissismdecoder/?sub_confirmation=1
 
=====================

DISCLAIMER ALERT: The Narcissism Decoder podcast is provided for general information purposes only. The content presented in this Podcast is not intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any psychological condition related to narcissism. The content on this Podcast should not be considered a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.  Always seek the advice of your physician or qualified mental health provider with any questions you may have regarding a mental health concern. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have seen or heard in this video. If you think you may have a medical emergency, call your doctor or emergency services immediately. Reliance on any information provided in this video is solely at your own risk. The creators and producers of this video do not assume any responsibility or liability for any injury, damage, or adverse effects caused by the use of the information contained herein.
Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use

© The Narcissism Decoder

In this powerful episode, Episode 79 and 80, we dive deep into the feelings of helplessness that can arise when you witness someone you care about self-destructing.

We sit down with Jim, a father whose daughter is struggling with traits that seem to align with vulnerable narcissism. We explore the emotional cost of trying to stay connected when love, guilt, helplessness, and longing collide. Jim faces the emotional cost of constantly trying to fix his daughter’s problems.

But what happens when the helper’s need to fix crosses into emotional collapse? In this segment of my conversation with Jim we dive into his internal struggle, not just with his daughter but with his own compulsion to fix her.
Is it frustration, helplessness, or something else entirely? Dr. Mazzella explains how we can be unknowingly drawn into the dynamics of projective identification, where others project their struggles onto us, intensifying our own feelings of helplessness. It’s not just about being frustrated; it’s about understanding that sometimes, their pain is being shown to us in a way we can't ignore.

✅ Subscribe To My Channel For More Videos: https://www.youtube.com/@thenarcissismdecoder/?sub_confirmation=1

✅ Important Links:

👉 Website: https://www.drmazzella.com/
👉 For consultation or seeking virtual therapy services please visit: https://www.drmazzella.com/contact/
👉 To listen to Dr. Mazzella’s podcast please click here: https://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast/

✅ Stay Connected With Me:

👉 Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anthony-mazzella-ph-d-53289431/
👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thenarcissism.decoder/
👉 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thenarcissismdecoder
👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thenarcissismdecoder

==============================

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 Facing Hidden Truths: The Journey to Understand Her Family's Imperfections | Drmazzella.com
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iHaD1SaSwkk

👉 A Daughter's Search for Support: Unraveling Hidden Maternal Critique | Drmazzella.com
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l5CQxuLRYc4

👉 Exposing Covert Narcissism: Dr. Mazzella's Insights - The Hidden Truths - Part 1 | Drmazzella.com
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bk25z9Y5Jv0

👉 Dr. Mazzella's Deep Dive into Covert Narcissism: The Hidden Truths Revealed: Part 2 | Drmazzella.com
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AhOBoAnbr3A

=============================

✅ About The Narcissism Decoder:

Welcome to the Narcissism Decoder, where we dive into the intriguing world of narcissism! While my podcast provides an in-depth exploration of various aspects of narcissistic dynamics, I have something extra special for you on YouTube.

Unlike my podcast, these videos are short, snappy, and designed for the fast-paced world. I may not go as deep as my podcast episodes, but I make up for it with a more dynamic and visually appealing approach. It's the perfect solution for those who want to grasp the essence of narcissistic dynamics without committing to a longer podcast episode.

Join me on this journey as we decode narcissism together. Subscribe now, and let's unravel the fascinating world of narcissism in a way that suits your preference - concise, captivating, and always insightful.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: thenarcissismdecoder@gmail.com

🔔 Subscribe to my channel for more videos: https://www.youtube.com/@thenarcissismdecoder/?sub_confirmation=1

=====================

DISCLAIMER ALERT: The Narcissism Decoder podcast is provided for general information purposes only. The content presented in this Podcast is not intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any psychological condition related to narcissism. The content on this Podcast should not be considered a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or qualified mental health provider with any questions you may have regarding a mental health concern. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have seen or heard in this video. If you think you may have a medical emergency, call your doctor or emergency services immediately. Reliance on any information provided in this video is solely at your own risk. The creators and producers of this video do not assume any responsibility or liability for any injury, damage, or adverse effects caused by the use of the information contained herein.
Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use

© The Narcissism Decoder

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How do you handle feeling helpless when someone you love is making self-destructive choices?

The Narcissism Decoder May 25, 2025 6:01 am

This video clip is from Episode 79 and 80 of The Narcissism Decoder Podcast.
We dive deep into how reenactments of old emotional patterns can trap us in unproductive cycles. 

We sit down with Jim, a father whose daughter is struggling with traits that seem to align with vulnerable narcissism. We explore the emotional cost of trying to stay connected when love, guilt, helplessness, and longing collide.  Jim faces the emotional cost of constantly trying to fix his daughter’s problems. 

But what happens when the helper’s need to fix crosses into emotional collapse? In this segment of my conversation with Jim we dive into his internal struggle, not just with his daughter but with his own compulsion to fix her.

Jim struggles with watching his daughter make choices he believes are wrong, and we explore how these dynamics play out between them. Recognizing these reenactments can be the first step in breaking free.
🎧 https://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast/

✅ Subscribe To My Channel For More Videos: https://www.youtube.com/@thenarcissismdecoder/?sub_confirmation=1

✅ Important Links: 

👉 Website: https://www.drmazzella.com/
👉 For consultation or seeking virtual therapy services please visit: https://www.drmazzella.com/contact/
👉 To listen to Dr. Mazzella’s podcast please click here: https://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast/

✅  Stay Connected With Me: 

👉 Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anthony-mazzella-ph-d-53289431/
👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thenarcissism.decoder/
👉 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thenarcissismdecoder
👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thenarcissismdecoder

==============================

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching: 

👉 Facing Hidden Truths: The Journey to Understand Her Family's Imperfections | Drmazzella.com
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iHaD1SaSwkk

👉 A Daughter's Search for Support: Unraveling Hidden Maternal Critique | Drmazzella.com
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l5CQxuLRYc4

👉 Exposing Covert Narcissism: Dr. Mazzella's Insights - The Hidden Truths - Part 1 | Drmazzella.com
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bk25z9Y5Jv0

👉 Dr. Mazzella's Deep Dive into Covert Narcissism: The Hidden Truths Revealed: Part 2 | Drmazzella.com
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AhOBoAnbr3A 

=============================

✅  About The Narcissism Decoder: 

Welcome to the Narcissism Decoder, where we dive into the intriguing world of narcissism! While my podcast provides an in-depth exploration of various aspects of narcissistic dynamics, I have something extra special for you on YouTube.

Unlike my podcast, these videos are short, snappy, and designed for the fast-paced world. I may not go as deep as my podcast episodes, but I make up for it with a more dynamic and visually appealing approach. It's the perfect solution for those who want to grasp the essence of narcissistic dynamics without committing to a longer podcast episode.

Join me on this journey as we decode narcissism together. Subscribe now, and let's unravel the fascinating world of narcissism in a way that suits your preference - concise, captivating, and always insightful.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩  Email: thenarcissismdecoder@gmail.com

🔔 Subscribe to my channel for more videos: https://www.youtube.com/@thenarcissismdecoder/?sub_confirmation=1
 
=====================

DISCLAIMER ALERT: The Narcissism Decoder podcast is provided for general information purposes only. The content presented in this Podcast is not intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any psychological condition related to narcissism. The content on this Podcast should not be considered a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.  Always seek the advice of your physician or qualified mental health provider with any questions you may have regarding a mental health concern. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have seen or heard in this video. If you think you may have a medical emergency, call your doctor or emergency services immediately. Reliance on any information provided in this video is solely at your own risk. The creators and producers of this video do not assume any responsibility or liability for any injury, damage, or adverse effects caused by the use of the information contained herein.
Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use

© The Narcissism Decoder

This video clip is from Episode 79 and 80 of The Narcissism Decoder Podcast.
We dive deep into how reenactments of old emotional patterns can trap us in unproductive cycles.

We sit down with Jim, a father whose daughter is struggling with traits that seem to align with vulnerable narcissism. We explore the emotional cost of trying to stay connected when love, guilt, helplessness, and longing collide. Jim faces the emotional cost of constantly trying to fix his daughter’s problems.

But what happens when the helper’s need to fix crosses into emotional collapse? In this segment of my conversation with Jim we dive into his internal struggle, not just with his daughter but with his own compulsion to fix her.

Jim struggles with watching his daughter make choices he believes are wrong, and we explore how these dynamics play out between them. Recognizing these reenactments can be the first step in breaking free.
🎧 https://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast/

✅ Subscribe To My Channel For More Videos: https://www.youtube.com/@thenarcissismdecoder/?sub_confirmation=1

✅ Important Links:

👉 Website: https://www.drmazzella.com/
👉 For consultation or seeking virtual therapy services please visit: https://www.drmazzella.com/contact/
👉 To listen to Dr. Mazzella’s podcast please click here: https://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast/

✅ Stay Connected With Me:

👉 Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anthony-mazzella-ph-d-53289431/
👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thenarcissism.decoder/
👉 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thenarcissismdecoder
👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thenarcissismdecoder

==============================

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 Facing Hidden Truths: The Journey to Understand Her Family's Imperfections | Drmazzella.com
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iHaD1SaSwkk

👉 A Daughter's Search for Support: Unraveling Hidden Maternal Critique | Drmazzella.com
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l5CQxuLRYc4

👉 Exposing Covert Narcissism: Dr. Mazzella's Insights - The Hidden Truths - Part 1 | Drmazzella.com
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bk25z9Y5Jv0

👉 Dr. Mazzella's Deep Dive into Covert Narcissism: The Hidden Truths Revealed: Part 2 | Drmazzella.com
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AhOBoAnbr3A

=============================

✅ About The Narcissism Decoder:

Welcome to the Narcissism Decoder, where we dive into the intriguing world of narcissism! While my podcast provides an in-depth exploration of various aspects of narcissistic dynamics, I have something extra special for you on YouTube.

Unlike my podcast, these videos are short, snappy, and designed for the fast-paced world. I may not go as deep as my podcast episodes, but I make up for it with a more dynamic and visually appealing approach. It's the perfect solution for those who want to grasp the essence of narcissistic dynamics without committing to a longer podcast episode.

Join me on this journey as we decode narcissism together. Subscribe now, and let's unravel the fascinating world of narcissism in a way that suits your preference - concise, captivating, and always insightful.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩 Email: thenarcissismdecoder@gmail.com

🔔 Subscribe to my channel for more videos: https://www.youtube.com/@thenarcissismdecoder/?sub_confirmation=1

=====================

DISCLAIMER ALERT: The Narcissism Decoder podcast is provided for general information purposes only. The content presented in this Podcast is not intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any psychological condition related to narcissism. The content on this Podcast should not be considered a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or qualified mental health provider with any questions you may have regarding a mental health concern. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have seen or heard in this video. If you think you may have a medical emergency, call your doctor or emergency services immediately. Reliance on any information provided in this video is solely at your own risk. The creators and producers of this video do not assume any responsibility or liability for any injury, damage, or adverse effects caused by the use of the information contained herein.
Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use

© The Narcissism Decoder

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Are You Stuck in a Reenactment of Old Patterns in Your Relationships?

The Narcissism Decoder May 18, 2025 6:01 am

Negotiating with a narcissist is unlike any other type of negotiation. In this episode, we discuss why you can’t apply normal rules when dealing with a narcissist. Understanding their need for control and their fear of losing power is key to navigating these high-stakes situations. Tune in to learn how to create leverage and protect your peace.

🎧 https://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast/

✅ Subscribe To My Channel For More Videos: https://www.youtube.com/@thenarcissismdecoder/?sub_confirmation=1

✅ Important Links: 

👉 Website: https://www.drmazzella.com/
👉 For consultation or seeking virtual therapy services please visit: https://www.drmazzella.com/contact/
👉 To listen to Dr. Mazzella’s podcast please click here: https://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast/

✅  Stay Connected With Me: 

👉 Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anthony-mazzella-ph-d-53289431/
👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thenarcissism.decoder/
👉 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thenarcissismdecoder
👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thenarcissismdecoder

==============================

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching: 

👉 Facing Hidden Truths: The Journey to Understand Her Family's Imperfections | Drmazzella.com
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iHaD1SaSwkk

👉 A Daughter's Search for Support: Unraveling Hidden Maternal Critique | Drmazzella.com
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l5CQxuLRYc4

👉 Exposing Covert Narcissism: Dr. Mazzella's Insights - The Hidden Truths - Part 1 | Drmazzella.com
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bk25z9Y5Jv0

👉 Dr. Mazzella's Deep Dive into Covert Narcissism: The Hidden Truths Revealed: Part 2 | Drmazzella.com
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AhOBoAnbr3A 

=============================

✅  About The Narcissism Decoder: 

Welcome to the Narcissism Decoder, where we dive into the intriguing world of narcissism! While my podcast provides an in-depth exploration of various aspects of narcissistic dynamics, I have something extra special for you on YouTube.

Unlike my podcast, these videos are short, snappy, and designed for the fast-paced world. I may not go as deep as my podcast episodes, but I make up for it with a more dynamic and visually appealing approach. It's the perfect solution for those who want to grasp the essence of narcissistic dynamics without committing to a longer podcast episode.

Join me on this journey as we decode narcissism together. Subscribe now, and let's unravel the fascinating world of narcissism in a way that suits your preference - concise, captivating, and always insightful.

For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below:

📩  Email: thenarcissismdecoder@gmail.com

🔔 Subscribe to my channel for more videos: https://www.youtube.com/@thenarcissismdecoder/?sub_confirmation=1
 
=====================

DISCLAIMER ALERT: The Narcissism Decoder podcast is provided for general information purposes only. The content presented in this Podcast is not intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any psychological condition related to narcissism. The content on this Podcast should not be considered a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.  Always seek the advice of your physician or qualified mental health provider with any questions you may have regarding a mental health concern. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have seen or heard in this video. If you think you may have a medical emergency, call your doctor or emergency services immediately. Reliance on any information provided in this video is solely at your own risk. The creators and producers of this video do not assume any responsibility or liability for any injury, damage, or adverse effects caused by the use of the information contained herein.
Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use

© The Narcissism Decoder

Negotiating with a narcissist is unlike any other type of negotiation. In this episode, we discuss why you can’t apply normal rules when dealing with a narcissist. Understanding their need for control and their fear of losing power is key to navigating these high-stakes situations. Tune in to learn how to create leverage and protect your peace.

🎧 https://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast/

✅ Subscribe To My Channel For More Videos: https://www.youtube.com/@thenarcissismdecoder/?sub_confirmation=1

✅ Important Links:

👉 Website: https://www.drmazzella.com/
👉 For consultation or seeking virtual therapy services please visit: https://www.drmazzella.com/contact/
👉 To listen to Dr. Mazzella’s podcast please click here: https://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast/

✅ Stay Connected With Me:

👉 Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anthony-mazzella-ph-d-53289431/
👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thenarcissism.decoder/
👉 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thenarcissismdecoder
👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thenarcissismdecoder

==============================

✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching:

👉 Facing Hidden Truths: The Journey to Understand Her Family's Imperfections | Drmazzella.com
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iHaD1SaSwkk

👉 A Daughter's Search for Support: Unraveling Hidden Maternal Critique | Drmazzella.com
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l5CQxuLRYc4

👉 Exposing Covert Narcissism: Dr. Mazzella's Insights - The Hidden Truths - Part 1 | Drmazzella.com
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bk25z9Y5Jv0

👉 Dr. Mazzella's Deep Dive into Covert Narcissism: The Hidden Truths Revealed: Part 2 | Drmazzella.com
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AhOBoAnbr3A

=============================

✅ About The Narcissism Decoder:

Welcome to the Narcissism Decoder, where we dive into the intriguing world of narcissism! While my podcast provides an in-depth exploration of various aspects of narcissistic dynamics, I have something extra special for you on YouTube.

Unlike my podcast, these videos are short, snappy, and designed for the fast-paced world. I may not go as deep as my podcast episodes, but I make up for it with a more dynamic and visually appealing approach. It's the perfect solution for those who want to grasp the essence of narcissistic dynamics without committing to a longer podcast episode.

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Advanced Techniques for Engaging Narcissistic Clients

Sometimes, you need to dig deeper to connect with narcissistic clients. In this episode, we talk about advanced strategies for engaging with difficult behaviors, ensuring that therapeutic conversations remain productive.
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Why leaving isn’t the end of the battle.

You’re not just grieving what you lost — you’re fighting what stayed with you.
In this episode, we talk about the harsh inner critic survivors often carry after narcissistic abuse — voices saying “you’re not worthy,” “you’re unlovable,” “you’ll never make it.”
Those voices aren’t yours — but they feel real. And they must be confronted.
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Devaluation as a Barrier to Trust

Covert narcissists may compliment you in a way that leaves you feeling insulted. In this episode, we discuss the subtle yet powerful devaluation that prevents therapists from building meaningful trust and connection.
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But what if it could have worked?

That question haunts many survivors of narcissistic relationships.
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In this episode, we explore how leaving means confronting that painful truth… and the deep internal propaganda that kept you hoping for more.
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