The Narcissism Decoder Podcast

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The Narcissism Decoder Podcast

The Narcissism Decoder is a podcast that takes a comprehensive look at various facets of narcissism. The goal is to provide stellar educational content and clinical examples on mental health issues related to narcissistic personality disorder.  This podcast focuses on specific aspects of narcissism, including its origins and everyday manifestations. In every episode, different psychoanalytic frameworks are explored as we unravel the complexities that lie beneath the surface of this label.  I am on a mission to share my knowledge to help you gain profound insights into narcissism, navigate its complexities, and foster personal growth and understanding. If you listen to each episode, you will enhance your understanding of this complex structure.

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Please tune in for a blend of compassionate insights, expert guidance, and compelling narratives that will reshape your perspective on narcissism.

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I Know My Partner is Narcissistic – Why Can’t I Leave? (Recorded live interview)

In this episode, I sit down with Jin from Narc Troopers—a writer, educator, podcaster, and narcissistic abuse recovery facilitator— to explore the psychological dynamics that keep people stuck in toxic narcissistic relationships and why breaking free can feel impossible. We discuss the fantasy that keeps people trapped, the impact of early childhood development, and Shelly Bach’s concept of pathological mourning. We also touch on the dead mother theory by André Green and its relevance to feeling trapped.
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This episode is Part 2 of my conversation on Dimming the Gaslight with hosts Mac and Phil, where we dive even deeper into the complexities of narcissism. We explore the motivations behind narcissistic behavior, the struggle with forgiveness, and how therapy can facilitate change. We also discuss the emotional push-pull in relationships with narcissists, the role of brain chemistry, and the tough decision of when to walk away. Understanding these dynamics is key to personal growth and healing.
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Covert Narcissism: The Impact of Emotional Manipulation (Recorded Live Interview) – Covert Narcissism Exposed

In this episode, we explore the insidious impact of covert narcissism on parent-child relationships with expert Renee Swanson. We discuss how emotional manipulation can masquerade as love, creating lasting confusion and self-doubt. We examine how these patterns shape adult relationships and the challenges of breaking free. Finally, we highlight the power of connection over correction in parenting and share strategies for healing and repairing the relationship.
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Can a Narcissist Change? (Recorded Live Interview Part 1)- Why Narcissistis Manipulate you

This episode is Part 1 of my conversation on Dimming the Gaslight, where I was a guest with hosts Mac and Phil. They asked some fascinating questions as we explored various aspects of narcissism—its emotionality, neediness, and ties to codependency. We also discussed whether narcissists can change, how pain can drive transformation, and the complexities of manipulation, apologies and accountability in relationships.
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The Key to Healthy Relationships: Not Just Apologizing (Recorded Interview Part 2)

In this episode of The Narcissism Decoder, I’m joined once again by Josh as we continue our conversation on the challenges of maintaining healthy relationships post-divorce. Josh shares further insights into effective co-parenting strategies and emphasizes the distinction between apologies and amends, highlighting how true amends involve actionable steps to correct past wrongs rather than just an expression of intention. We explore the importance of focusing on one's own actions and feelings in relationships, underscoring that healthy connections are rooted in mutual respect and a genuine willingness to take responsibility for mistakes.
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