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Meet Anthony Mazzella, Ph.D.
Psychotherapist And Psychoanalyst In New York City With Close To 20 Years Of Experience.
Anthony Mazzella, Ph.D., is a psychoanalyst and psychotherapist in private practice on the Upper East Side of Manhattan. He is a training analyst and full member at the Institute for Psychoanalytic Training & Research (IPTAR), as well as being a current member of The International Psychoanalytic Association (IPA). Membership in the IPA is restricted to psychoanalysts who fulfill the most rigorous and recognized international standards for psychoanalytic training in the world. Dr. Mazzella is both a Fellow of the IPA and at IPTAR. Dr. Mazzella is on faculty and is a supervisor at IPTAR and the Metropolitan Institute for Training in Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy (MITPP). He is also recognized by the New York State Education Department’s State Board for Social Work as an approved provider of continuing education.
“My mission is to build a trusting relationship that will allow you to gain insight into your inner life and behaviors so you can make more deliberate choices and therefore lead a more fulfilling life…”
- Dr. Mazzella
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Dr. Mazzella is an NYC-based psychotherapist and psychoanalyst with over 20 years of clinical experience. He trained at the renowned Institute for Psychoanalytic Training and Research (IPTAR) with continued involvement with the organization to this day. He believes psychodynamic therapy to be an essential component of psychological work, benefiting individuals from all walks of life.
Dr. Mazzella believes that psychodynamic psychotherapy is effective for those dealing with overwhelming emotions. One of the benefits of his approach is that it helps to create a safe and trusting relationship, which is particularly helpful for learning new coping skills and strategies to manage your problems. By exploring your thoughts and feelings, you’ll gain a deeper understanding of what might be causing your problems. As you work through these emotions in a supported environment, you’ll feel more able to tackle them on your own.
Dr. Mazzella works with a wide range of individuals (e.g., adolescents, adults, and couples) to address a variety of emotional difficulties, such as interpersonal problems, self-esteem issues, depression, anxiety, and personality disorders. Dr. Mazzella’s approach focuses on insight-oriented psychodynamic therapy, emphasizing exploration of past and present experiences. For a deeper understanding of how Dr. Mazzella thinks about psychology and works with his patients, please click on any of his latest articles below.
If you’re looking for a compassionate and skilled therapist to help you navigate life’s challenges, please contact Dr. Anthony Mazzella. His years of experience and superb training have equipped him to be a leading psychotherapist and psychoanalyst.
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The Grief Isn’t Normal—And That’s the Point 🧠💥
Here is the main point that I`m trying to make: People wonder why they can’t recover from narcissistic relationships the same way they would any other breakup.
Because this isn`t just grief—it`s confusion, self-doubt, and deep emotional wounding.
This pain has a pattern. Let’s unpack it.
🎧 https://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast/
#HealingFromNarcissism #EmotionalGrief #NarcissisticTrauma #TheNarcissismDecoderPodcast #UnpackingThePain #TraumaInRelationships #BreakFreeFromNPD #MentalHealthMatters #ToxicRecovery #EmotionalWounds

The Grief Isn’t Normal—And That’s the Point 🧠💥
Here is the main point that I`m trying to make: People wonder why they can’t recover from narcissistic relationships the same way they would any other breakup.
Because this isn`t just grief—it`s confusion, self-doubt, and deep emotional wounding.
This pain has a pattern. Let’s unpack it.
🎧 https://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast/
#HealingFromNarcissism #EmotionalGrief #NarcissisticTrauma #TheNarcissismDecoderPodcast #UnpackingThePain #TraumaInRelationships #BreakFreeFromNPD #MentalHealthMatters #ToxicRecovery #EmotionalWounds
Is Betrayal a Hidden Invitation to Rebuild? 💔➡️🛠
Betrayal cracks your world wide open… but what if that’s the gift?
This episode reveals how life’s breaking points offer the greatest opportunity to rebuild—from the inside out.
Dr. Mazzella asks: If the old version of you believed it, does it still serve you now?
If the answer is no—you don’t bring it with you.
🎧 https://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast/
#RebuildYourself #PostBetrayalGrowth #DeliberateHealing #RecreateYourLife #IntentionalLiving #TheNarcissismDecoderPodcast #EmotionalRebirth #LettingGoOfTheOld #FromPainToPower #BetrayalRecovery

Is Betrayal a Hidden Invitation to Rebuild? 💔➡️🛠
Betrayal cracks your world wide open… but what if that’s the gift?
This episode reveals how life’s breaking points offer the greatest opportunity to rebuild—from the inside out.
Dr. Mazzella asks: If the old version of you believed it, does it still serve you now?
If the answer is no—you don’t bring it with you.
🎧 https://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast/
#RebuildYourself #PostBetrayalGrowth #DeliberateHealing #RecreateYourLife #IntentionalLiving #TheNarcissismDecoderPodcast #EmotionalRebirth #LettingGoOfTheOld #FromPainToPower #BetrayalRecovery
Blame Is Only Part of the Story 🧩
Here is the main point that I`m trying to make: Yes, narcissists manipulate—but the full story is more layered.
The relationship often lives in fantasy, driven by emotional highs that feel almost addictive.
Understanding this helps explain why walking away can feel so hard—even when you know something’s wrong.
🎧 https://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast/
#EmotionalAddiction #FantasyBond #NarcissisticAbuse #PsychologicalInsight #TraumaDynamics #TheNarcissismDecoderPodcast #ToxicRelationships #EmotionalAwareness #CodependencyRecovery #GaslightingRecovery

Blame Is Only Part of the Story 🧩
Here is the main point that I`m trying to make: Yes, narcissists manipulate—but the full story is more layered.
The relationship often lives in fantasy, driven by emotional highs that feel almost addictive.
Understanding this helps explain why walking away can feel so hard—even when you know something’s wrong.
🎧 https://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast/
#EmotionalAddiction #FantasyBond #NarcissisticAbuse #PsychologicalInsight #TraumaDynamics #TheNarcissismDecoderPodcast #ToxicRelationships #EmotionalAwareness #CodependencyRecovery #GaslightingRecovery
Transformation Isn’t Lonely—It’s Personal 🧘♂️
True change isn’t always met with applause.
In this episode, we unpack the pain of outgrowing the people who once felt like home.
When you start healing—setting boundaries, loving yourself, and rebuilding your body and mind—you may no longer fit in with those still stuck in the same patterns.
But you’re not alone. There is a beautiful Stage 5 waiting for you.
🎧 https://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast/
#EmotionalHealing #SelfGrowth #StageFiveAwakening #ToxicCycles #LettingGoWithLove #SpiritualHealing #HealingJourney #NewWorldview #BoundariesAndHealing #TheNarcissismDecoderPodcast

Transformation Isn’t Lonely—It’s Personal 🧘♂️
True change isn’t always met with applause.
In this episode, we unpack the pain of outgrowing the people who once felt like home.
When you start healing—setting boundaries, loving yourself, and rebuilding your body and mind—you may no longer fit in with those still stuck in the same patterns.
But you’re not alone. There is a beautiful Stage 5 waiting for you.
🎧 https://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast/
#EmotionalHealing #SelfGrowth #StageFiveAwakening #ToxicCycles #LettingGoWithLove #SpiritualHealing #HealingJourney #NewWorldview #BoundariesAndHealing #TheNarcissismDecoderPodcast