What lies beneath the patterns of destructive narcissistic relationships? The answer lies in the origins of omnipotent fantasies developed in childhood, triggered by abrupt separations or early abusive relationships. As narcissistic individuals long for ideal connections, the awareness of dependency surfaces, bringing pain, anxiety, and the threat of reigniting a repetition of early abusive relating. Understanding the intricate dance of longed for ideal relations and destructive impulses provides insights into these challenging dynamics. If you or someone you know is experiencing this kind of ideal and then destructive relationship, and you would like to learn more about this, please feel free to contact me directly or be sure to check out my podcast or my Narcissism Decoder video channel.